Hi ladies, lets be real. Can you relate with this?
You have this male friend (bestie) that is everything you want; gives you the right amount of attention, is always there when you need him, gives you listening ears and a shoulder to cry on, he’s just perfect for you. But you just can’t date him, because he can’t take care of your financial and material needs…
Know what I mean?
So, you get a new boyfriend (who isn’t all you want but can provide the extravagant things you want) and then you friend-zone your bestie. When Bae upsets you, you always run to this male friend of yours for emotional comfort. Fast forward and you get married to your boyfriend but your heart is still unstable. Who cares anyways? Not in this 21st century where money is all you claim to need and you secretly hope that your bestie will always be there to comfort us.
Now, your bestie is married and focused on his woman. He no longer has time for you because his wife has taken his time and heart. You call him every now and then but he doesn’t answer. You keep checking him out on Facebook, Twitter, Instagram and WhatsApp like a monitoring spirit because you want to know if he’s better and happier than you and without you.
What do you expect?
You ignored the perfect person for you because of his immediate circumstance forgetting that things change and that money can’t buy respect, love and happiness. You are still unstable and probably searching for that one male like him to replace him and heal your wounds like before.
SMH…Face your marriage madam!